I was diagnosed with MS in March of 2015, just a few months after I turned 26. For the next few years, I felt busy with MS stuff — going to doctors, getting medicine, going to meetings, researching. Not bad things at all, but I just felt a little robbed of my 20s. So, when I turned 29 in 2018, I decided to have a “Year of Yes.” I wanted to make it a fearless year of me just trying to say yes, enjoying life and seeing where I would go.
Some of the things I said “YES” to in 2018:
More get-togethers with friends, a Judah & the Lion concert (I LOVE concerts), going with my cousin to visit another cousin in snowy Salt Lake City, as well as other trips to San José Del Cabo, and Seattle (for my first comic convention, where I also met Tom Hiddleston!).
I volunteered at the food bank and went to a book signing and The Nutcracker ballet.
I also went to the top of the Seattle Space Needle (I’m terrified of heights!), camped at the beach, and performed in “Mary Poppins” the musical.
A lot of these were things I really wanted to say “yes” to. I don’t think I would have done, or felt comfortable doing, half of these things the first two years after being diagnosed with MS. Looking back, I am so grateful I took advantage of this new empowerment/mantra for the year.
I think one of my favorite “yeses” was auditioning for “Mary Poppins.” I do not sing solo in front of others, but it was required for the audition. It was completely outside of my comfort zone, and I am so proud of myself for doing it. The whole experience of that production was fun and rewarding. It was nice to prove to myself, again, that I can still perform onstage.
The whole year was liberating for me; embracing the freedom of being able and wanting to say “yes,” from the biggest trips to the smallest things. It just felt nice. I remember considering going up in the elevator at the Seattle Space Needle. I almost didn’t do it, but my friend encouraged me. I am so happy I said “yes” because the view was gorgeous, and it wasn’t all that scary way up high. Definitely worth it!
I learned that while it is fantastic to say “yes,” it is still perfectly okay to say “no.” I learned to try to see the big picture. When I said no, though, I learned to cut myself some slack and to be okay with that decision. Sometimes my MS symptoms, or just I, might be saying “take a break.” I have become comfortable with that decision, too. Today, I am trying to incorporate “Year of Yes” into my everyday life!
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